Sex Education, The Catholic Church, Pinay Sex Scandals, Lessening Hungered and Homeless Children

Why is it that the Pinay Scandal is on the top list for search engines? Or Filipina Sex Scandal, Makati Sex Scandal? Or Pinay Prostitute and Sexy Pinays? This means something, right? This is something that relates to Filipina sex, and usually, or even 100% it connotes a negative thing. But should it connote a negative thing? Where is justice? People are simply malicious and hypocrites, this is the contention that I always hold, especially where I grew for 22 years: In Philippines. Examine the Following truth and see how these Pinay Scandal, Filipina Sex Scandal or all kinds of dirty filipina sexual scandals can come out despite the “strong” Catholic foundation in the Philippines. This post is already packed with responses from fellow Filipinas and Filipinos as well as fellow bloggers from all over the blogsphere.
Knowledge is the first line of defense. Truth and acknowledgement of reality are the factors that can set us free. A cancer can only be cured if we know that it exists or if we know that we have them. The earlier we acknowledge and we know that we have a cancer, the more curable it can be. The more we ignore a cancer or the later we act upon it, the cancer cells multiply and the cancer becomes acute.

The same is true with Sex education. If children be educated about sex, it would be their first step to face reality. If youngsters realize the consequences of their actions, their would be lesser unwanted pregnancies and lesser thrown fetuses! Moreover, the use of contraceptives would lessen the fast population growth in the Philippines and would at least ease poverty.
The Sex Education in the Philippines is very difficult to succeed though. It is because of the ever-present and ever-opposing Catholic Church in the country. HYPOCRISY and HYPOCRISY again! I am a Catholic and sometimes I regret being one. I strongly believe in God and I am sure God wants the best for its creations. No sufferings, like a father to his children, the best is what the father desires (although this is not really 100% tru for many Filipino fathers I know).

Children/Youngsters will always F-CK! If they want and the mere absence of contraception and the possibility of pre-marital pregnancy don’t stop them from F__iNG so! The church is a blind duck! It chooses to protect it’s unreasonable ethics! I am disappointed to think that the Church wants children to beg and be born without a bright future in exchange of educating youngsters about contraceptives and encouraging them to use one.

Is sex a sin? Pre-marital sex is a sin? And how about many priests with children?
If having sex is a sin, why do you exist in this world then? Why do WE exist? Your parents are sinners! And how many percent of the couples marry with a big bellied bride because she is already pregnant? Why the Church performed the ceremony to marry them anyway? They (the marrying couple with pregnant bride) are sinners, RIGHT? What is the difference? They too F-cked before marriage!

And sex education be let to the responsibilities parents, the Catholic Church argued. And do you know how ignorant Filipino parents are when it comes to this topic? And because of the teachings of the church, do you know how malicious Filipinos have become when sex is the topic? How many mothers in the Philippines would tell their children the correct answer to each sexual-related question? The usual answer a child gets when asking about his/her origin, is that she just came out one day! Education s the best answer! Knowledge is freedom! Knowledge and truth must be promoted. If a youngster know better, he/she has a bright future. He/she would not be a burden to society and government.

Ohhh…and one more thing! If that youngster succeeds and earn much someday, HE/SHE WILL DONATE to the church, so I guess, it’s an investment, Father? Think about it! Some readings and bases came from LifeSiteNews and the following are various responses:

Response of Coolingstar9 of Coolingstar Blog

In this modern world, human being facing a lot of new challenges.
This is the true fact, we can not deny it. We need to face the reality that children are now able to access to sex-related materials due to high curiosity at their age.Proper sex education is really important in the cyber world. Without proper education and simply ignorance would not solve the problems like aids, sex dieases.
School can play an important rule to provide enough coverage on sex-related topics so as to let then have the proper knowledge.

The topics must cover the following:

1. How our body work? How the process? How the baby come out?
2. The danger of unprotected sex?
3. How we can get sex dieases and aids?
4. The danger of having sex before marriage?

Of course, we should not encourage sex before marriage. We need to provide consultancy services to those who do not know how to handle all these.This is my little thought, if I go for details, it will be lengthy page.
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Response from Weng of La Vira Aller La-Bas
i stongly agree with you po...phew!

know what? i have known what sex is only when i reached High School... it's true, i swear! waaaa... whenever i ask my mom before where did i come from.. she would just point her stomach and say "you came here..." and when we asked our grade shcool teacher how we became humans, she would just say "the egg and the sperm cells unite and then form a baby inside the womb of your mother"... ofcorz we are sooo clueless(ang alam lang namin is that the eggcell comes from the female and the sperm from male) that time but we care not... bata pa kasi eh... and now i realized how important sex education is... i have friends who became preggy at their young age... tsk tsk.. kakaawa... 'yong iba hindi pa pinanagutan.. haaayyyzzz... mabuti na lang at nasa tama akong pag-iisip, kung hind eh nanay na ako ngayon...whew!

i still can't understand why the church is depriving youngsters to have a knowledge about the thing na kung tutuusin nakakatulong din naman 'yon. dapat kasi and simbahan gumaguide lang, nagtuturo ng tama at mali. they should open the minds of the people about the reality so that the people will know what to do and what should be done to correct things. now if the person chooses the wrong path,eh wala ng magagawa ang church don because he has his own freewill to do things...


Response from Bluedreamer of Blue Dreamer's Top Five
Im 19 and i can say i agree with that well i just dont know why churches try to hurdle hving sex education
its just a matter of teaching the right way and putting the youngsters in the rigth path
contrception is good way but church disagree. thanks for sharing this.

Response from Mica Watson of Life and Adventures:
First: Education the youngster and hit the head of the parents who will not educate their children about sex, the consequences and the results of it. I appreciaate you for posting this.

Second: hi gurl, you posted a very relevant article..hopefully youngsters would not be stupid about sex....

Response from Anino of Mga Hiwaga ng Kasaysayan
1. Malayong mangyari yang "sex education" sa isang bansa na magulo ang pulitika. Sabi nga "hiwalay ang estado sa simbahan" ngunit alam naman nating lahat kung gaano kalaki ang impluwensya ng simbahan sa ating gobyerno. Ang ilan namang mga pulitiko natin ay alam ang problema tungkol sa mabilis na paglago ng populasyon ngunit takot silang kalabanin ang simbahan. Sino ba naman ang ayaw manalo sa eleksyon?
2. Parang yung nangyari na ipinagbawal ng simbahan ang pagpapalabas ng Da Vinci Code na pelikula. Iniisip ng mga pari na tanga ang mga Filipino.


Response of April:
♥ w0000oot.. my turn.. well.. how about putting der knowledge n d act..? like related learning EXPERIENCE.. hahaha... u know wat i min... hikhik..
♥ for me sex is not a sin.. but premarital sex is.. i dont care if wer n modern world.. still its outside marriage...
♥ Sex education is gud.. if we cnt stop youngsters(like me ;)) from doing it, at least dey use contracptives... to avoid unwanted prgnancies and abortion... as for the catholic's stand, yeah dey disagree.. coz dey are taking d literal meaning of contra(against) ceptive(life) as n against life... as for the range of sex education, it must not only state the use of contracptives and control methods but also include who, where and when to do it.. hahahha... lolz... nalingaw koh... ;)
♥COnclusion: premarital sex is sin.. but hu wudnt love it...? rofl... hahahahah...

--->btw, my comment is as long as a blog post.. ahehe.. i shud have make a trackback and not comment only.. but i wont make a post about sex now.. maybe later.. :D

@offtopic: redrouge as in red rouge..? i tot its ur nem.. ahahaha.. so dumb me.. sorry... yngat lagi...

Response of The Meliorist:

i am for sex education but do it to high schools to college studs not for elem schoolers. not only church will educate but also the parents and school teachers. the lesson that should NOT be covered the "how the act is done" and "how is the feeling of it" instead the teashers should insist that it is really abd to engage in such act because of virtue, responsibility, future and when is the proper time. in that way, sex education can be taught safely.

when i was in college, i had a toic like that. while she was discussn it she was so nervous and shy maybe coz she's still single. she wasnt prepared actually. Early pregnancy should not be blamed for lack of sex education IT SHOULD BE BLAMED FOR LACK OF VIRTUES, EDUCATION AND A SENSE OF DREAMING FOR A BRIGHTER FUTURE. if you observe, most of those engaged in such are those considered poor, OSY and those who do not have "DREAMS"..it should be blamed, most of all, to the parents.

Response of Mummy Sheng of Simple Thoughts
those are so true! glad to have somebody like you who brought up such interesting and knowledgeable topics! thank you!


Response of Tessa:
hi there ^__^

I totally agree with your post.

It's really not good that the topic sex is repressed to children/the youth. Even though we can control giving themno information at home or at school about sex, we can never control the other factors outside it. Factors like the media: internet, tv, mags, or even influences from their peers.

So if the society or school cannot give a good sex education, it should be discussed at home. In one way or another, kids will grow-up, get curious of things... so it's better if parents will guide them while their young, make them understand what is sex and the other factors that are related to it.

The church should not get in the way of these things. Sex is not a sin. It is the sole responsibility of the person how he uses sex.

We cannot control people what they want to do... and we cannot control the youngsters if they want to fck. Though sex education is the best solution for overpopulation and unwanted pregnancies. It is all about being knowledgable, knowing your limitation, and being responsible for your acts..